This illustration is not a pretty picture.
Nonetheless, something like this could have happened to you (man or woman)... in this life, or in a 'past life'.
If it did,
and you decided never to do again whatever it was that resulted in you ending up like this,
even if you do not at first remember ANY of this,
that old decision could still be influencing your life today.
It could be blocking you from being yourself in your present life.
It could stop you from creating, speaking out, or using your Nonmaterial Values and Knacks for helping others.
It could be stopping you from Cavitating and building your part of Archiarchy.
Are you ready to do something different?
Understanding Past Life Vows
CONTEXT
Sudden healing and evolution are possible, beyond what you might imagine from logical analysis with your mind.
Sudden emergence of personal Agency is possible, through removal of energetic blocks, changing old forgotten commitments, cleaning out residual memory echoes of long past fears, and so on.
These statements are not theoretical. They are derived from direct empirical experience researched by many small Teams of Possibilitators in the Americas and Europe since 1975.
These new results come from shifting into a new Context.
The Context of this work (Possibility Management) is not western culture's Jungian-Freudian Psychotherapy, not Psychodrama, not Gestalt Therapy, not Buddhism, not Spiral Dynamics, not Hinduism (or any religion), etc. It is not a previously known Context.
The Context of this work is not derived from any kind of belief system. For example, it is not necessary to believe that you have had 'past lives', or to believe that 'past lives' are possible, for this Process to work for you. In fact, for this work, it is recommended to not Believe anything.
The Context of this work is Possibility.
Possibility is a Bright Principle.
Bright Principles are Infinite Resources which are accessible to trained adult human beings when they enter the Archetypal Domains.
The Doorway for entering the Archetypal Domains is the Decontaminated Initiated Adult Egostate with a Transformed Gremlin at your side.
Providing the Practices and Processes through which a person gains Agency in establishing the Context of Possibility in their Work Spaces is the aim of Possibilitator Training.
Valuable results of this work arise when the Space within which this work is Navigated has been Contexted in the Bright Principles of Clarity, Possibility, and Love.
Establishing the Context of the Work Space is the job of the Possibilitator while being their Archetypal Lineage in action, for example as a Possibility Coach, Possibility Mediator, Possibility Psychologist, Feelings Practitioner, or Possibility Trainer.
During certain Emotional Healing Processes (EHP), the Possibilitator simply operates as if what is being revealed during the process is so, ('takes it at face value', so to speak, or, without diminishing the power of their Bullshit Detector, Radically Relies on what the Client says), and then follows the Process through to its logical conclusion. The new results show up in the Client's life accordingly. These results tend to be more stable and profound than the results which arise through merely understanding something new with the mind.
If the Client is well prepared, and if the Possibilitator is skilled, significantly positive life-changes frequently happen during Emotional Healing Processes (EHP). We have witnessed this in our own personal lives, as well as in the lives of thousands of others who have participated in the Past Life Vow and other Processes.
PREPARATIONS
Depending on the circumstances, and the design of a person's Matrix at their time of death, a Past Life Vow can restrict the natural evolution of the shape of the Being from lifetime to lifetime by forcing the Being to conform to the Vow's mandates for awareness and behavior possibilities.
You could also call the Vow a 'Death Wish', because it is a strong wish at the time of death. The restricting force of the Past Life Vow blocks the Evolution Of Consciousness as if the person prefers to remain 'dead' in life, only duplicating the already known, not much different from a Zombie. In this perspective, the releasing powers of a Past Life Vow process can be regarded as part of a 'Zombie Recovery Program'. As Brad Pitt says in the film World War Z (which is on the Possibility Films List), "Every person we save is one less Zombie we have to fight."
Over the years we have distilled a series of crucial preparations, without which any significant 3 Phase Healing Process - such as a Past Life Vow Emotional Healing Process Process (EHP) - can easily falter and fail.
These preparations include:
- Shift from Defensive Learning to Expansive Learning so that you can learn about things that you did not know that you did not know about in your daily life.
- Shift from Verbal Reality to Experiential Reality so that you can get out of the minimal world inside your head and gain access to a fuller spectrum of guiding sensations to use in Navigating your daily life.
- Learn to be at home in Possibilitator First Position: Centered, Grounded, Bubbled, with your Sword Of Clarity to hand.
- Learn to Consciously Feel so that you can instantly discern between Feelings and Emotions and can take appropriate actions with them in your daily life.
- Gain Agency with Inner Navigating to inhabit your 5 Bodies, especially in times of stress.
- Consciously Stellate your four feelings (Anger, Sadness, Fear, and Joy) to gain access to your Feelings Archetypes in your daily life.
- Learn to Split Your Attention so that you can Pay Attention To Your Attention and stay aware of what your Purpose is.
- Develop absurdly effective levels of skill to Cavitate, Hold, and Navigate Transformational Spaces so that you can do for others what is being done for you.
- Transform your Gremlin so he or she is an agent of Nonlinear Possibility at your side, creating and making use of Unreasonable opportunities.
- Decontaminate your Adult Ego State from your Child, Parent, Adult, and Demon Egostates so that you gain access to the Archetypal Domains where Past Life Vows make sense.
PREPARATION DOJOS
Teams of Possibilitators around the world collaborate to create both online and offline 'Dojos' for making the above-listed preparations.
A Dōjō (道場) is traditionally a hall or place where martial arts are practiced. The term is of Japanese origin, with the “Do- 道” meaning 'The path', or, 'The way of', and the 'Jo-場' meaning 'a castle', or simply 'a place'. Together this means, 'The place of the way', or, 'The place of the Path.'
In Possibility Management, we use the term 'Dojo' to refer to an online (energetic space) or offline (physical space) in which we come together to Practice Possibilitator Skills and to prepare each other for our next step on our Evolutionary Path. For example, EHP Dojo is a place either online or offline where we come together to do Emotional Healing Processes (EHP) together.
When the preparations are well enough along, your Past Life Vow process will happen as if it goes all by itself.
Such preparations are rarely perfectly accomplished, because 'perfection' does not exist in reality except as a Declaration. In reality, we Improvise. The fact that the PM Tradition resorts to improvisation is not a problem, because each individual human being is unique, and each unique human being has developed uniquely clever childhood Survival Strategies. Since 'the key must fit the lock', there is no method for escaping the 8 Prisons and for leaving childhood behind to enter Free And Natural Adulthood. Improvisation and Awe are the way of the day.
Nonetheless, preparations require real-world (measurable) practice and execution. No one can get prepared for you. More interestingly, no one can stop you from preparing yourself.
Since 1998, Possibilitators have been creating and operating numerous forms and spaces where specific preparations are most effectively accomplished. Here are some Doorways to the best 'Preparation Dojos' we know about:
PREPARATION DOJOS
- Rage Club
- Fear Club
- 3Cell
- Possibility Team
- S.P.A.R.K. Experiment Group
- StartOver.xyz Experiment Group
- Study Group
- Expand The Box training
- Possibility Labs
- Possibilitator Training
Plus you can build further 'preparation matrix' through:
YOUR BOX MIGHT BE CRYSTALLIZED EVEN BEFORE YOU ARE BORN
Children are born carrying pre-formatted patterns from... somewhere...
If you have more than one child, this becomes instantly obvious. Even if you provide each child with meticulously equal love, care, attention, and opportunities, they each inhabit their own world and negotiate it with unique styles and levels of competence. How can this be?
Do you have brothers or sisters? Are they the same as you? (No.) What made them each so different from you?
So many things can influence how a person shows up in the world. In addition to genetics, nutrition, degree of toxins in the environment, role models to immitate, opportunities to experiment and become more and more responsible, etc. there are also the positions of the planets and the stars, karma, Contracts, and pre-existing decisions, visions, commitments, and Past Life Vows.
If your pre-existing conditions are flexible, it is easier to Change Your Mind. You can choose other Survival Strateg elements, develop unused potentials, hidden talents, and knacks so that your life emerges more in accordance to the present time, and so you can provide what is wanted and needed to create a new future. But, if your pre-existing conditions are rigid and well-defended, inventing a new future may be more difficult for you. You may instead be constrained to fulfill previously agreed upon obligations and to follow the habits and patterns with which you incarnated.
In the case of rigid constraints upon the freedom of movement of your Being to choose from items that are not offered on the menu of your birth culture, it can even be the case that your survival habit patterns may be 'crystallized' before you are even born.
The key to working with this sort of crystallization in yourself (and if you are a Possibilitator, then in some fashion also in others), is awareness. Without awareness of your own crystallization, the filter of your psychological defense strategy - what we in Possibility Management happily refer to as your Box, determines everything you can perceive and everything you can express.
What this means is that the world will look and operate for you in a predetermined set of patterns without you realizing that you yourself are establishing those constraints on yourself.
These inflexible limitations are not coming from the world, they are coming from your pre-existing Stories, Beliefs, Assumptions, Expectations, Conclusions, Projections, Prejudices, Judgements, Resentments, for taking Revenge.
This is an astonishing realization, to realize how powerful you are, powerful enough to stop yourself from healing, transforming, freeing yourself of your 8 Prisons enough to step forth, reborn after a self-initiated Phoenix Process, fresh into the world. You can StartOver.
Once you understand the accuracy of this awareness, you regain freedom of Conscious Will, freedom of Choice, freedom of Do-Oversand you can set off into the world anew.
WHERE ARE PAST LIFE VOW PROCESSES PROVIDED?
When you are properly prepared, the actual Past Life Vow Process might be provided for you at the following venues or persons:
Dismantling A Past Life Vow
FIRST CASE STUDY
During a Possibility Lab training, a young man participated along with his female friend.
By the second day of the Possibility Lab, the training Space was secure and skilled enough for the Trainers to address an issue which was presenting itself since the beginning of the training, namely that the young man's right leg unconsciously but incessantly kept jittering up and down.
The Trainer says to the Participant, "I notice that your right leg keeps bouncing up and down."
The Participant says, "Yes. It has done this my whole life."
The Trainer asks, "Why did you come to this Possibility Lab?"
The Participant reaches up with his hand to feel the back of his own neck and says, "Well, I have a painful bump on the back of my neck since birth that no matter what I have tried, chiropracty, osteopathy, nothing makes it go away. Plus, my business isn't working, and this woman who came here with me keeps asking me to marry her and have children and I have nearly a panic attack any time I consider doing that."
The Trainer says, "I see. Thank you. Are you ready to get started?"
The Participant says a bit dubiously, "Yes."
The Trainer says, "Excellent. Please make sure you have your Center, your Grounding Cord, and your personal Bubble Of Space. Good. Now, take a deep breath, close your eyes, and let the leg movements get as big as they want to get. Just get out of the way and let that leg move however it wants to, and let your feelings come."
The Participant follows the invitations. His right leg starts bouncing so much he can barely sit in his chair. Plus his left leg now begins to move. He starts feeling big emotions. He does not know what to do.
The Trainer says, "Keep letting your feelings get bigger. I am going to ask you some very clear and specific questions which your mind will not know the answers to. But your body knows the answers. Let your body answer the questions I ask you as soon as I ask, okay?"
The Participant says, "Yes."
The Trainer says, "It looks like you are feeling something."
The Participant says, "Yes! I feel fear!"
The Trainer asks, "Is it a feeling or an emotion?"
The Participant says, "It's an emotion!"
The Trainer says, "We are bringing over a mattress for you to lie on. Please keep your eyes closed. When you feel us hold your arms, please stand up, step to where we guide you, and lie down on your back on the mattress. Okay?"
The Participant says, "Yes!" He follow the instructions.
As he lies on the mattress the Trainer says, "Keep letting your emotions get bigger and let the sounds out. Let your whole body move. We have two Rules here: Don't hurt yourself. And, don't hurt anybody else. Do you agree?"
The Participant says, "Yes," and then starts writhing and kicking and screaming his lungs out. His legs are pounding the mattress in a rythmic motion, as well as his fists.
The Trainer demands, "Is it day time or night time?"
The Participant says, "It is evening."
The Trainer demands, "Are you inside or outside?"
The Participant keeps screaming and writhing and shouts, "I am outside, in a field. I am running!"
The Trainer demands, "What is happening?"
The Participant says, "I am running up towards a cave where all the villagers are. The robbers are riding into our village. We knew they were coming so we all left our homes and ran up to our cave. But while we ran, we left a big trail through the field so the robbers know exactly where we are. My wife and children are already in the cave. My wife is giving me a white cloth on a stick." Then he screams with fear and anger, and now sobs with huge sadness.
The Trainer demands, "Who are you in the village? What is your role?"
The Participant shouts, "I am the mayor of the village." Then he yells and shouts in rage.
The Trainer demands, "What is happening now?
The Participant says, "I am running down across the field away from the cave carrying the white flag as a signal of surrender. I want to negotiate with the robbers. Aaaarghghghghghaaaaa!" he screams out.
The Trainer demands, "What is happening now?"
The Participant sobs unstoppably. His whole body and chest heaves in an outpouring of agony. He says, "The lead robber... he did not even stop his horse. He just pulls out his sword and chops through the back of my neck. He cuts my head off..." He screams and writhes in pain.
At this point we can audibly hear bones crunching and releasing their positions in the back of the Participant's neck. Muscles which have been tensed up against the blow of the sword since lifetimes are now relaxing, letting his vertebra go into their natural positions for perhaps the first time in his life.
The Participant hardly notices the bones crunching around. He says, "Even with my head on the grass, severed from my body, I can see the robbers ride past me on up to the cave to rape and pillage and kill everyone I love, everyone I care about. They take everything we have. My whole family is killed." He sobs and screams out uncontrollably in grief and rage, pounding the mattress with his fists and his whole body.
After a few moments while the man's utter rage and despair fills up the space, the Trainer grabs up the Participant's Beep! Book and prepares to write down what the Participant says next. The Traner says, "Please keep your eyes closed, stay in your feelings, and answer my next questions. Your body has the answers, not your mind. While this was happening... what did you decide?"
The Participant answers instantly. "I decided never to be a leader again because I cannot protect my village."
The Trainer write this down in a section titled OLD DECISIONS. Then demands, "What else did you decide?"
The Participant says, "I decided never to get married again because I cannot protect my wife."
"Thank you," says the Trainer, then demands, "What else did you decide?"
The Participant says, " I decided never to have children again because I cannot protect my family."
"Thank you," says the Trainer, then demands, "What else did you decide?"
The Participant says, "I decided that nobody can count on me in the Team, that my decisions and actions are untrusworthy because the whole village was killed." His sobs continue.
"Anything else?" asks the Trainer.
There is silence.
"I want to ask you to check something out for me, alright?" asks the Trainer.
"Yes", says the Participant.
The Trainer says, "Keep your eyes closed. Stay with your feelings. Are any of these old decisions still influencing your life today?"
The Participant immediately sobs and pounds his fists into the mattress. "Yes! All of them! This is the story of my life!" He does not believe in 'past lives', yet here he is, experiencing the whole process as it goes.
In other circumstances the Trainer might ask, "Could you please explain how these old decisions are influencing your life today?" but this time it is so obvious, the request is not necessary.
The Trainer says, "Would you like to make any new decisions?"
The Participant says, "Well, yes... but what would they be?"
The Trainer says, "Let's try an experiment, alright?"
The Participant says, "Yes."
The Trainer says, "Click your Clicker (your fingers)."
The Participant clicks his fingers once.
The Trainer says, "You are now standing there in the center of your village. Your wife is there by your side, your children are there, and all the villagers are standing together facing you in a circle. Look into their eyes and say, 'Hello my people'."
The Participant says, "Hello my people," and immediately starts sobbing in remorse and grief. "I am so sorry," he says. "I did not mean for us to be killed. I loved you and I wanted to keep living with you all in our little village."
The Trainer says, "One of the villages steps forward to speak with you. Who is it?"
The Participant says, "It is Olaf, the blacksmith. He was such a friend to me."
The Trainer asks, "What is Olaf saying to you?"
The Participant says, "He says not to worry. They are all fine now in their current lives. He says the villagers are all grateful that I was their Mayor because they loved me and they trusted me. They would never have wanted to have a different Mayor than me because I took care of them and made smart and wise decisions." He is sobbing now. "Olaf says nothing else was possible than what happened when the robbers came. We all did the best we could. We did not want to have an army village. We wanted to have a peaceful village, full of love and connection, and it worked just like that for many years. He says they would not hesitate to have me as their Mayor again, if they ever had the chance." He sobs from deep down in his heart.
The Trainer says, "Reach out your arms to Olaf and let him give you a big hug. You never had a chance to say goodbye to each other. It all happened so fast."
The Participant reaches out his arms, hugs Olaf, says, "Goodbye, my friend."
After a moment the Trainer says, "Gather up your wife and your children in your arms. You never had a chance to say goodbye to them either. Ask your wife if she is okay now."
The Participant reaches out again and hugs his family close, tells them he is sorry, says goodbye to them.
The Trainer asks, "What did your wife say?"
The Participant says, "She tells me not to fret about it. She was so proud of me that I took the white flag she offered me and that I ran down with such courage to negotiate with the robbers, even if it did not work. She could see how much I trusted her ideas and how much I respected her and loved her. She said that this is what happened, and now she is fine, that I should go on about my life now." He is overwhelmed in the changes happening in his heart and his Being now.
The Trainers asks, "Did you get the chance to say goodbye to your wife and your children?"
The Paraticipant says, "Yes. It is good now."
The Trainer says, "Please click your Clicker so your family and the villagers can disappear and all go back to wherever they are now."
The Participant clicks his Clicker and makes a big sigh.
The Trainer says, "I want to ask you another question. Are you ready?"
The Participant says, "Yes."
The Trainer says, "What would your new decisions be?"
The Participant says, "People can trust me because I will do my best for them... Even if I make a mistake, my woman is not betrayed because our love is bigger than mistakes... I was a spaceholder for a whole village, so I can also be a spaceholder for a family."
The Trainer writes down what the Participant says under the title NEW DECISIONS in the Participant's Beep! Book. In other Past Life Processes, the Trainer may have had to help the Participant formulate new decisions to include enough nonlinear possibility, because a new decision comes from a newly shaped Being. Deciding simply the opposite of an old decision is insufficiently powerful because the logic comes from the mind but does not change the shape of the Being enough to create a new future.
The Trainer says, "I propose an experiment for you. For the rest of the Training, please regard this Training space as your village, and all the other participants as your villagers. You are our Mayor, again. Please say and do whatever needs to be said and done to navigate our village for the rest of our time together here. Will you do this?"
The Participant says, "Yes, but... who are you in this village?"
The Trainer says, "Me? I am the Wizard. Every village needs a Mayor for everyday affairs, but every village also needs to be connected with a Wizard who comes around now and then to do the Wizard stuff."
The Participant laughs while he is crying in disbelief, but he has courage, and the heart of a good Mayor. He slowly opens his eyes, lifts his head from the mattress, looks around at each of us, and says, "Yes. I will do that. Hello village!"
We all say, "Hello Mayor! Welcome back! We missed you!"
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From a report a year later, we learned that the couple got married, they already had their first child, their business was thriving with a close-knit Team, and the bump on the back of the man's neck? It was gone before the Past Life Process was over.
SECOND CASE STUDY
During a honeymoon 'magic mushroom' experience, a young man has a 'recollection' of being with his new wife in a past life.
The images are clear and strong. They were both Native American Indian warriors in the American plains, but belonged to neighboring tribes who regarded each other as 'enemies'.
One of the tests of a warrior in both tribes was to get close enough to an enemy warrior and hit them with a club or a stick without getting hit back, taking a 'coup', but not actually harming the enemy. A successful 'coup' would add status and glorious legends to one warrior and embarrass the other in the intertribal gossip fields. Both of these warriors were top warriors of their tribe, an appropriate match for the ongoing contest, and in this way, somehow they were also 'friends'.
In this instance, the young man had successfully taken a 'coup' on his enemy (his new wife), but due to the wildness of the battle, a false move of the other's horse, the 'coup' to the head with a club is lethal. The 'enemy' warrior falls to the ground.
The warrior who gave the 'coup' leaps off his own horse to cradle his 'enemy' friend in his arms. Who else would challenge him now? What had he done, killing his best friend? As the stricken warrior dies, the winning warrior is overcome with so much shame and grief about the mistake of killing his friend that he makes a vow: "I will give you another life."
That is the end of the vision.
Twenty-five years later, after living a successful life together, having two grown home-schooled daughters , running home businesses, traveling the world, joining a spiritual school together, being sent to a foreign country and given positions of responsibility in the spiritual community, suddenly there is breakdown in the relationship. It seems at first to be inexplicable, and then it becomes intractable. The man leaves his wife, gets divorced, and considers himself to be somehow a failure.
A year or so after the divorce, during a meditation, the man has another vision. He remembers the first vision twenty-five years previously, about how he had accidentally caused the death of the other warrior with the 'coup'. He remembers the Past Life Vow he made then: "I will give you another life." And then he realizes that he has kept his vow.
The shame of failure from the divorce transforms into self-respect for the Integrity of having done what he said he would do. In the world of a tribal Indian, twenty-five years was the length of a lifetime. The man had kept a very difficult promise. He had given his friend-made-wife a rich and remarkable twenty-five years of life.
When the vow is completed, the man is freed of it, forever. A whole new life opens up for him, and for his ex-wife.
Demonstrations of a Past Life Vow EHPs
Over 100 actual Emotional Healing Processes (EHP) are available for you to study on the website Create Possibility.
Preparation Experiments
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